A Case For Being a Humble Engineer

Dan Goslen
5 min readSep 11, 2023
Photo by Kyle Johnson on Unsplash

Have you heard the myth of the 10x engineer?

The 10x engineer myth claims that engineers are “10x more effective than others.” These unicorn-status engineers are often typecast “brilliant jerks” who ignore meetings to rewrite entire systems in a few days or leave their teams out to dry.

The myth has become somewhat of a joke these days, but there remains some residue about this idea that to get ahead, you have to put yourself first. You are supposed to avoid humility and opt for a winner-takes-all approach.

And yet, many fantastic engineering leaders are humble. I think of people Scott Hanselman, Kelsey Hightower, or Kent C Dodds. People who have shaped our industry significantly through their accomplishments but are quick to take a humble stance, give credit to others, and adopt a posture of learning.

Why is there a disconnect here?

The reason is that we misunderstand (or potentially misapply) humility in our industry.

Being humble is not about a lack of advocacy for yourself or passing up credit for your accomplishments. Being humble doesn’t mean you’re a doormat, either.

Instead, humility is a posture. It’s about how you achieve your work, interact with your peers, and how you communicate your accomplishments.

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Dan Goslen

Jesus follower | Husband | Dad | Software engineer. Helping devs build better teams